Life is hard. Seriously. My life right now is like walking down a hallway with a million doors and knowing that behind every door is something waiting to give me its worst. Yet, every day I get comments on how happy I always am. My theory is that I just have to tell myself that whenever bad things happen, “Your life does not suck. It could be so much worse.” Its kinda sad, but, for me, its forgive and forget, move on, be happy. Why waste time looking back?
Here comes the rant.
If I can do this, I know that other people can too. Ive had too many run-ins with people lately who are stuck on the past. Yeah, your life was tough. I get it. But its time to get over it. Living a sad life and thinking that others owe you something because you had it rough is not living your life to the fullest.
There are so many opportunities in life that people are missing because they are stuck in the past. So today, forgive someone, forget about that thing that happened to you that one time, and have fun. Cliche time: Today is a gift – thats why they call it the present. Lame, I know, but think about it. You owe it to yourself to make yourself happy, and when you are happy, it makes other people happy. Spread the love.
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So true Sarah! Happiness is a choice we have to make every second of everyday. If we continue to dwell on the past self pity will eat us up and nobody wants to be friends with a person that is always talking about is how rough life is. Life is amazing, we get challanged sometimes by different circumstances but we have to choose to push through them no matter what!
Life needs to continue to change and sometimes changes is those hard circumstances, we shouldn’t be upset about the obstacles, we need to look at the circumstance as a oppurtunity for change in our lives.
Like my parents always use to tell me when I was a kid “life isn’t fair, deal with it” it’s harsh but it’s so true. People can’t dwell on what could have been or would should have been, make the best of what you have and work towards what you want.